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"That each tomorrow
Find us farther than today."

H.W. Longfellow
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Redeeming the time in 2009... 01-01-09 03:14pm EST
I don't do New Years Resolutions. I try to live by my quote on the left there, which is taken from Longfellow's Psalm of Life. Here it is in its entirety:

Tell me not, in mournful numbers,
"Life is but an empty dream!"
For the soul is dead that slumbers,
And things are not what they seem.

Life is real! Life is earnest!
And the grave is not its goal;
"Dust thou art, to dust returnest,"
Was not spoken of the soul.

Not enjoyment, and not sorrow,
Is our destined end or way;
But to act that each to-morrow
Finds us farther than to-day.

Art is long, and Time is fleeting,
And our hearts, though stout and brave,
Still, like muffled drums, are beating
Funeral marches to the grave.

In the world's broad field of battle,
In the bivouac of Life,
Be not like dumb, driven cattle!
Be a hero in the strife!

Trust no Future, howe'er pleasant!
Let the dead Past bury its dead!
Act,--act in the living Present!
Heart within, and God o'erhead!

Lives of great men all remind us
We can make our lives sublime,
And, departing, leave behind us
Footprints on the sands of time;

Footprints, that perhaps another,
Sailing o'er life's solemn main,
A forlorn and shipwrecked brother,
Seeing, shall take heart again.

Let us, then, be up and doing,
With a heart for any fate;
Still achieving, still pursuing
Learn to labor and to wait.

There are also some good thoughts to that effect on her blog. It's not that I don't see need for improvement. The difference is that self-improvement is something I reflect upon and work on daily. Yes, literally, daily. Every day I work on making myself a better person. Perhaps things have happened in the past, perhaps I have hurt some here inadvertently, but please keep in mind that I will not ever stop striving to do better. Thank you for your patience with me, and thank you to those of you who urge me to keep running with endurance (Heb. 12:1).
laurar209Well, I can drive through Washington tonight (it only adds a few minutes to my total driving time -- not bad at all), so I can drop off your lost and found items. Heh... it WAS rather amusing to arrive at church and the first thing Tim says to me is: "Oh GOOD! You're here! Now you can give Jack his ____!" ???? Uh, and hello to you too, tim. 
littlelambYes, self improvement is something we should all strive for daily. I have often found myself sorely lacking, but I hope that each day brings me closer to being who I should be. 
janedoe"up and doing!" I'd better go! :D 
mpettesSame here. Why wait for a new year to start doing what you should already be doing? Happy New Year!!! 
nickkrumreiI am so proud of you Kitty. (near tears) I miss you. 
tommyswifeThat was a beautiful! I hope this year finds it easier to daily make your goals! :) 
mjintexasI don't do resolutions either. ;) 
nycamiI've found that goals are better than resolutions. Determine the kind of person you want to be, the behavior you want to achieve and then decide how you will get there. And you're right, it's an every day, a little bit at a time job. You're the best, by the way. 
lefantstafthey should make a vaccuum cleaner and name it "bivouac" 
sallyanneThe coffeemaker is definitely a special gift. He did use a great coupon at Bed, Bath and Beyond so he got a better deal than it initially appears :)

I'm really enjoying it. The girls and I re-use the little k-cups...one makes a small cup and one a medium so they use the same one. This make is much more economical than it appears, too.

It is a lot of fun and it works well. I also use it to boil water for cocoa and hot tea (using mix and tea bags)...the hot water is a nice bonus!

BTW, you are so right about daily self improvement. If I waited a year to work on myself, I'd be a mess ;) 
robynbobmI have loved that poem since reading it in school. 
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Ringing in the new year... very quietly... 12-31-08 11:12pm EST
*shrugs* Life changes with kids, that's for sure.

So I'm spending my New Years Eve eating chocolate and shopping for watches online while Jack sleeps upstairs. I wanted to indulge by snitching a can of Heidi's Dr. Pepper stash, but the caffeine wouldn't be good for Jack or myself this late at night. Am I BO-RING or what? :P At least I've got my chocolate.

AND, I found the most beautiful watch online!!! I LOVE it! I got my second watch (first was a Minnie Mouse one when I was five) about 21 years ago and it was a Flik Flak watch. Found out by doing some investigating that I got one the first year they were in production! Wish I'd saved it, it might be a collectible. Isn't that always the story? Anyway, I rediscovered Flik Flak watches years later when I spotted one in an FAO Schwartz and I was smitten! I was overcome with nostalgia, so I got one. When that one broke, my sister got me another a few years later, and that is the one I've been wearing day and night (yes, I sleep with it, it is quite comfortable) for about four years now if I've got my math right. The other day, it broke - the plastic piece holding the strap in place snapped off. I was so sad. So tonight I found the new watch of my dreams. Since these are Swiss made and difficult to find in the US now, it costs more than I expected. There's a chance I could snoop around New York City and find it, but I don't know if I'd get a better price than online. Hmmmmm... maybe since I decided I didn't need that new pair of shoes afterall, it will make up for the cost of the watch. I'll have to consult my husband when he gets home. I know that it is pretty strange that I wear watches designed to teach pre-school children how to tell time, but I have small wrists and I LOVE them! It's just a quirky thing that is another part of who I am. I don't like having expensive quirks, but if I can get four years out of a watch like this, perhaps I can justify it.

I really wanted to post pictures of our recent excursions and tell all about our adventures, but I can't find the connector for the camera. Something else that will have to wait until my husband comes home.

Heidi is coming "home" tomorrow! I look forward to having her around again and hearing all about her trip. I SHOULD be cleaning the dishes, putting away all of the stuff from our trips, getting the study ready for Heidi, and balancing the checkbook... Instead, I'm shopping online and eating chocolate. Ok, maybe I'll give my self a good kick and at least balance the checkbook. :) Have a happy new year everyone!
gromit57LOL that sounds like a lot of fun! I got a Minnie Mouse watch when I was 5 too (my Granny & Poppy gave it to me for xmas) I loved that watch and wore it until the band totally fell apart. Later, when I graduated from high school they took me to pick out a watch and I got a Snoopy one!! I don't think that's what they had in mind, but it's what I wanted!! Lol, watches are fun. Hope your family has a nice New Year 
gromit57and hope Heidi gets there safely. :) 
spike427half a can of dr pepper probably doesn't have THAT much more caff than the chocolate!! ;) 
heatheronthehillHere is the watch I just love! The sparkles are a bit much, but I LOVE the flowers! Much more girly than usual for me, but I still think it is just perfect! 
janedoehey, nothing boring about skipping dr. pepper. 
sallyanneNot only did I drink caffeine today (and every day)...we just got back from a party at 1 A.M. Josh included. He did amazingly well...maybe it's the sixth kid thing...He was hopping around having a blast. He is just now nursing to sleep at quarter past one! Much later than his usual bed time!

Have a great new year! :) A quiet evening is nice, too!! 
mjintexasHey, the perfect watch just might be worth it! Still searching for mine. :) Happy new year!! :) 
nycamiTaking a little break from all the chores and chocolate/shopping on New Year's Eve sounds appropriate to me! I love the watch. 
laurar209So.... I have a little item for you in my trunk. I feel rather young in my life to be toting such a blue and white item around, but hey... gotta start sometime. ;) Anyways, if JAck can hold himself this long, I'll be by tonight (between 9 and 10... is that too late?) to drop by your "happy new year!" present! ;) 
laurar209(hey -- heidi needs practice in-between her nanny jobs so leave the dishes for HER!!! ;) 
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YES! 12-26-08 12:06am EST
Seven years ago, he asked...

I said YES! :) That is one of my happiest holiday memories!

We'll be heading home from NYC late Friday night after Daniel preaches in the East Orange gospel meeting. I'll have to post some pictures this weekend.

I'm missing my Minnesota family. :( I wish I could be two places at once!
mjintexasHard to believe it's been seven years. :) 
janedoeaww! 
nycamiWe're so glad you said yes!!!!!! 
nannytwistyfingersI remember you were in the kitchen on the computer and the rest of us were in the living room pretending not to ease drop. :) 
weekendsongserviceseven years? seriously? 
laurar209haha! 
clickaw :) 
nickkrumreiWe are missing y'all three too there eh?! 
nickkrumreiIt was so fun in Penzey's. I would like to expand our spice rack again! 
leyvaleyvawow times flies 
ruthkrumreiHappy memories of Mora :)...and Daniel. Remember worshing in Pine City? We miss you this year. Hugs and zerberts to my Jack! 
atlantaboysthanks for a great weekend heather, and thanks for making me an uncle and making it the best christmas ever! 
mamapCongratulations on becoming an aunt! I really appreciated your post below. That is always considered when making our vacation/traveling plans. We have been so bountifully blessed by such visits. Not only are we uplifted but I can't tell you how many times the folks we visited were deeply touched that we "made time" on our vacation to worship the Lord with them. I consider all the inevitable connections made during those visits a wonderful side-benefit of being part of the Lord's kingdom! :) 
sallyanneI hope you are having fun...I plan to put pictures up soon! The gingerbread house pictures turned out cute! Each of the girls took a few! 
lisareavesHappy traveling! One of my favorite parts of traveling is meeting the Christians in another place. Not only do you get a bigger picture of who we are but also the chance to encourage others. I think people miss out whrn they "vacation from the Lord" as you were saying. 
runningjakeCongrats! 
mr_and_mrs_berrywishing to be in many places at once is probably the hardest part of being married! Yet your own time is so precious too. We are very glad to know you both (and Jack). 
grannySeven and counting. Yes! I appreciate your previous post. One time we were able to travel around in Turkey, but because we too believe "we don't take a vacation from God" we made a point of flying to Germany that weekend, not knowing of any brethren in that huge country. Where there is the will, there is a way. 
comadeI was wondering if you use fuzzibunz? That is what I am considereing using but have a few specific questions before I go ahead and order them, maybe you can help? 
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Joys of the Journey 12-22-08 02:31pm EST
Preface: Several holidays fall on Thursdays this year, which makes for some difficulty for those traveling. This year is one of those where it is more challenging than most to plan a way to juggle worship services and Bible study with holiday plans, work and school schedules. I write these thoughts to ENCOURAGE, and want to make it perfectly clear that it is my sole purpose in writing. I do not say these things to proclaim my own piety or judge others, so please do not read what I have to say in that light. THANKS! :)

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Growing up, my Dad used to say, "We don't take a vacation from God." We planned all of our trips, big and small, around where we would worship. He made it a priority to be sure we had a plan to attend worship services, Sunday morning, evening, and a midweek service, no matter where we went. Daniel was raised the same way, and we ourselves have adopted this policy for our family.

It is not an easy thing to do. It always meant planning ahead and learning meeting times, addresses, and directions. Sometimes it meant shortening or lengthening our trip by a day just so we didn't have to travel on a Sunday or Wednesday night and miss a worship service. Sometimes it meant driving quite a bit out of our way to meet with the local saints, and it always meant a longer trip, because taking time out to find the building, worship with the saints and visit after adds on at the least a couple of hours. We had to take extra care planning clothing so we were appropriately dressed, yet comfortable, and sometimes things didn't quite pan out. Unexpected things can happen while traveling that foil even the best laid plans, but those times were rare.

Every single time in my memory, it meant that even though we were travel weary, we took time out of our trip, and instead of it being a sacrifice, it became a tremendous blessing! Even when we were grumpy from being in the car too long, finding local brethren and joining them in song, prayer and Bible study always lifted our spirits. It seems like every single place we ever visited, we found connections with someone we knew. Often these surprises helped us to feel like we were instant friends, cemented by our bond in Christ. I always remember piling back in the car after our meeting with the saints feeling tremendously uplifted, and knowing that the folks we had just met were feeling the same way as we went on our way rejoicing.

Some particularly memorable moments -
One of the best was when we were on tour with the FC band. We made plans to stop in Lake City, FL where Daniel's grandparents worshiped for Sunday p.m. services. Daniel's grandparents knew we were coming, but didn't tell the other members just in case we were unexpectedly delayed. They were a very small congregation and they didn't want to chance a disappointment. It turns out we were slightly delayed, and we arrived as they sang the first song. Daniel and I were the first in the building and we went and sat by his grandparents. We could see puzzled faces from the members as fifty more people filed in! With each phrase, the strength of the singing grew, and those puzzled faces turned into big smiles. What a delight!

I was young this time, so forgive me if I mix up the details, but this is the way I remember this story... We made plans to worship but found ourselves unexpectedly delayed by bad traffic. We weren't going to be able to make it to our planned worship destination, so we found the next big city, stopped at a Wal-mart and looked for "Church of Christ" in the phone book. We looked at maps and got directions and found a tiny congregation. I don't even remember the city, but I believe it was an all black congregation. I especially remember the exciting feelings of encouragement on that trip.

Other favorites include times when we got to see long lost friends on a trip. We recently got to see Daniel Ginn in Atlanta, and that was a real joy. Again, I say all of this to encourage you to make plans to worship with the saints during your travels. I assure you, there are many unexpected blessings to be had when we go out of our way to worship God.

I'd love to hear any stories you have about worshiping while you travel. Feel free to share.
cbonkamen! It just about brought tears to people's eyes when visitors came to see us in Slovakia - it meant so much to the Christians there and I think about that, and hope that I encourage others as much when I am a visitor. 
whipsmileWe grew up the very same way. 
scrappyhappymamaI've had many pleasant experiences stopping and visiting with churches during travels. As you mentioned, there is nearly always someone you know or who knows someone you know and it's fun to make those connections and reinforce the feeling of family throughout the world.

One of my favorite experiences was visiting a small congregation in remote north Texas during a week of camping (one of the more challenging times to go visiting!). We had to take some really small back roads to get there, and had almost decided we'd gotten ourselves lost. While there, I introduced myself to an elderly woman and it turns out she traveling too, from CA to visit her sister in TX. I told her I grew up in CA and we started talking about folks we knew and it turns out that she and her husband were my grandparents dearest friends years and years ago. It was especially poignant to talk with her and hear her memories, because my grandmother died when I was quite young. I later told my grandfather that I had met her, and he told me with great emotion how much they took care of him and my grandma while she was ill and dying. He said that they were his best friends in the world. And I felt to privileged to have met her in a chance encounter like that. 
jodimnThese statements are so true. We've traveled far out of our way and skipped seeing things we would have liked to see in order not to miss services. Like you said, it doesn't always work out, but those times are rare. My favorite places to visit are the congregations in the mid-west/west. They are so small that the members are so encouraged by our presence as are we. 
spinningbeeI love stories of your dad. :) 
heatheronthehillMaybe I should also add, seeing Jessie and meeting all of her family while on our honeymoon passing through Chicago! :) 
whipsmileThat's right! I remember that VERY much. 
sunnytabThe reason we became pen pals and spent weeks in the summer together was because we visited a church having a meeting in San Antonio and your parents were also there visiting. We swapped address because they had a daughter my age and you wrote me. The rest is history :) 
jenjamI grew up the same way, and we live that way, still. I can't imagine just taking a "vacation" from God. Thanks for the post, it's encouraging to know that other Christians are making the same efforts, especially when it's not convenient. 
mjintexasYou know, I am sure I must have been there for that band trip, but I don't remember! 
lastoflakewoodI agree. It has always been really neat to find those connections when visiting a new place. 
emilygrahamI agree totally - this has always been my family's philosphy - didn't matter how long or out of the way we had to go God comes first 
marlaI'm always happy to see Daniel when I'm in Atlanta, too! 
sharonWe wound up in an all black congregation the same way once...couldn't find what we were looking for and stopped at the first one with a sign.

I always loved visiting other churches when we traveled. I don't know why people just skip! 
sharon^^Should note that they all sang soprano. We kicked in with some harmony and afterwards they all asked us if we were in a band! 
holly_annI love meeting and making connections with christians around the country (and the world!). I agree, it is such a blessing. One memory I have was from when I was studying abroad in Italy (3 week trip). One of the Sundays I left the group and took a trip to Pisa to visit the congregation there. The man who picked me up mentioned one other American couple yet to arrive. We were in the middle of the service when they came and it turned out to be Jon Neff (who I teased at FC about being my brother because of our matching last names) and his girlfriend! What a wonderful surprise. We spent the afternoon together and it was delightful. 
nycamiThanks for your encouraging words. It just reflects an overall attitude of love for God and his people, doesn't it. I've always wondered how people could pray for safe journey, knowing they were traveling when they could be worshipping. 
quinners24Thanks for posting this; I remember that trip as well. What a good memory 
ruthkrumreiThe city you are talking about is Guthrie, Oklahoma. We stopped just north of Oklahoma City for directions as there was a bad wreck on the interstate. The saints in Guthrie were so encouraging. We try to stop there on our way to and from Texas. There have been times when we have had visiting Christians over to the house for a meal, or even to spend the night. Folks Of the world have asked me how I could have a "stranger" in my home! My reply is that they are not strangers, they are fellow Christians. 
ruthkrumreiI have noticed in our travels that your Pa has a neat way of adapting with the folks we are meeting with. When we go to Texas, he brings out his Southern drawl. When we are in Guthrie he sings right along with the spirituals, and taps his foot! I appreciate your memories. Nothing in this world is more precious than meeting with the saints. Where else would I be on Sunday or Wednesday? I hope always with those of like faith. 
littlelambI love visiting other congregations when we travel. We've become I guess what you would call seasonal regulars at some places. The nearest church to my parents's house is 2 hours away, but so worth the drive when we visit them. I know about half that congregation by name now.

The same when James travels for work. He's gotten to meet so many brethren that way. 
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more pictures... sweaters... and a big to-do 12-20-08 12:49pm EST
I know I just put up pictures, but Jack was being extra-cute this morning and we have to indulge the grandparents as much as possible, you know! :) Daniel cut a "window" and a "door" in his car seat box, and VOILA! Best present ever!!

Honestly, it doesn't take much to entertain a kid! Kitchen stuff, boxes, anything with wheels on it, those are the best toys!

Here's Jack eating some blueberries. He LOVES them, but he must have gotten a sour one! You can also see his new tooth.


I'm in a sweater quandry. I need button or zip up sweaters, and it is almost impossible to find a reasonably priced (i.e. - less than $25) sweater these days that is made of natural fibers. Almost every sweater I see is acrylic and I can't stand the stuff! One of my favorite wool zip-up sweaters shrunk in the wash, even though I washed it in cold water, on gentle, and laid it flat to dry. :( Sad, sad. I think I'm going to have to look more earnestly in consignment shops. It's so hard to find just the right thing.

And, just to get me motivated, here is what I need to do in the next three and a half days:
- make yogurt
- make biscotti and deliver to the neighbors
- wrap gifts
- make a grocery list and shop
- make Jack's "woolies"
(I'm designing some wool pants with feet on them to pull over whatever he is wearing for when we take him out and about in the mei tai. He needs something to keep his legs and feet extra warm, especially for all of the tromping around NYC we are planning to do next week. Maybe I can use my shrunken sweater... hmmmm...)

Better get to work!
sallyanneHave fun! I'm going to put up some pictures soon, too. They are so much fun at this age (I guess we could say that for nearly every age, huh?)...

Our party was a great success--32 visitors, so 40 people including us! 
clickPretty much love sweaters. :) 
jodimnLove the pictures. Check consignment, craisglist, and ebay. That's where we were able to get good deals on wool sweaters this year. 
chariroseythe part about making his wooly out of your sweater made me laugh.
One time I washed my hubands sweater and it shrunk to toddler size. Maybe I should have kept that for E! 
crazy_mamaHis poor little mouth looks so sad. I always feel for babies when those teeth come in. What a cutie!!! 
ruthkrumreiusing your sweater is a great idea. Elastic and thread and away you go :) 
ruthkrumreiYou 3 girls used boxes to make towns, and you used chalk for drawing roads on the driveway...And then you played for days :) 
cbonkWe used boxes to make a giant dinosaur that we named Thermos...well, I thought it was a beautiful name... 
sarahphimUsing your shrunken sweater is a great idea! 
butterflyhomerachelWhat size sweater do you wear? I'll help you look! 
rebekahPhilip loved Jack's box! Jack sure is a cutie!! 
munkbobI couldn't find ya'lls address. Could you send it to me. roadrunnerbuck99@yahoo.com 
atlantaboysum u need to bake biscotties and bring them for christmas! 
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