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in sickness and in health... 01-05-09 01:56pm CST

ok, I'm not trying to be debbie downer or anything, but in case you would like to know...

CARY's health update:

Today Cary met with the research doctor that performed the first "surgery" in Indianapolis last november (07). He was our second opinion on where Cary is now, and it is as expected. People with his rare condition are graded on 4 types, A,B,C,D. Cary was a level C, which is pancreatitis with chronic pain. His pancreas is basically eating away at itself as previously stated. They can't reverse it, but they do have a treatment to try and slow it down. The treatment is mroe for pain though than anything. The treatment consist of monthly shots that shut down the pancreas little by little, so its not overworking and causing hte pain. The Research doctor feels this is where Cary is at...

Cary will have to return in February to do more samples for insurance purposes, and so the docotor can look at the stricture in his pancreas and bile duct and measure them for stents. He will try to correct those.

After this procedure they will want to begin monthly injections to shut down the pancreas partly. He also mentioned if its causing too much pain, he is seriously considering a nerve block as well. Cary is to up his pancreatic enzyme supplements, too.

The good news is Cary is with the right doctor and at the right place, this is one of the best places if not the best, in the United States to be at for pancreatic research. The doctor told him as he starts new clinical trials and as them come up with more ideas, Cary will definitely be a candidate to try them. They are starting a clinical trial right now, but he can't participate since we dont' live up there right now.

So where do we go from here, well, physically its a downhill ride for health. The doctor is amazed that there was so much damage in so small a time. The strictures were not there a year ago when he did his procedure. Cary will eventually not be able to eat and will have to be tube fed. Then that will quit working and he'll move on to TPN's (IV nutrition). Then at this point he will be incredibly sick, and then he will be a candidate for a transplant. The doctor told us, again, unless he dies some sort of accident, this will kill him. We just don't know how long...

Cary told him how he is working on his PhD in Psychology and he's doing his dissertation on the psychology of chronic conditions or something to that effect. The doctor said there was a great need for that especially since lots of patients don't handle this well and have a great amount of depression. He said Cary might be able to really help them, since he's going through the suffering himself. He was glad that Cary was so happy, considering... well, we all know why don't we? :)

The plan, Lord willing, is to go up in February for the procedure. We hope to move back into our home up there by Mid-April. The doctor where we live knows his research doctor and they can work hand in hand so Cary can be hospitalized a mile or two from our home, and just go for Indy for special procdures/treatments.

I have two pregnant technicians at work, I'm packing up my baby things for them. The doctor told Cary to really consider whether to have children or not. Cary told him, well, we have two. He said it would be really hard, so I guess we won't be trying for that girl.

Please keep us in your prayers, noone knows what the future holds, we don't know how long we'll be blessed with Cary working here on this earth. But we put everything in the Lord's hands, and we will trust in Him and praise him until the very end.

meridith

We will keep you in our prayers.

 
mjintexas

Wow, lots here. I'm glad Cary will be able to get good care. My heart is heavy for you but I'm also feeling so blessed to be your friend and Cary's friend and witness your faith and perseverance. Much love to you both and your boys!

 
kristasfa

well I'm glad Cary got more answers and that they might be able to manage his pain a little more.
You've got two GORGEOUS boys, I'm sorry for the baby news, but look at those boys and see how blessed you are. We're praying for your family and I hope you get some good news soon.

 
wifelet

Though much of this post makes me sad, I'm SO glad to have y'all moving back up here. If you need anything while you're here next month, let us know - assuming we're in town, we'd be happy to help with whatever. Ditto for when you get up here permanently. :) Love you.

 
lastoflakewood

I'm sorry Amanda. I was thinking about Cary's appt today and hoping for better news.

 
kiss_the_rain

I can't even imagine everything you're going through. You're in our prayers, for Cary's health and for your comfort and strength. You have such incredible faith!

 
spike427

thank you so much for pouring yourself out here so candidly and honestly. it helps so much to know EXACTLY how to pray!!

 
lynny

Amanda, my heart aches for you. We will continue to pray fervently. I am so encouraged by your faith and I hope our prayers comfort you and yours.

 
missy

I'm sorry to hear this news. I'm glad you're going to be able to be back up in Indiana. I'll be praying for you guys!

 
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things to do 01-02-09 08:58pm CST

Rachael came and we just loved it! I am sad she is gone, but I am so grateful for her. I'm honored she'd give up part of her vacation to come visit me and help me out!!!

Thank you Rachael!!!

I got home from work and the house was tooo quiet. I don't know if I can stand it, I guess I have no choice. Thats ok, Peter and I have a ton of chores and tasks to get done IF we can give up some of our cuddling time.

Cary has a Dr. appointment Monday with one of IU's research doctor's. He looks forward to a second opinion, and I have certainly am having a hard time being optomistic. I dont think this doctor will do anything or have any different opinions than what we've already heard. I'm so tired of having our hopes up, just to be disappointed. This last week Cary went 2 days without any pain medications, it was great! We were actually both encouraged by this.

So much going on for 2009!!! March - Caryn's wedding April-June - sometime in there we move. May - My sister and cousin are graduating. Peter turns 1!!! whoa~ June I turn 28. Well that covers the first half of the year...

Regarding my move back to IN I'm considering trying to get a hospital pharmacist job if I can still get in. I hoping for not having to drive far distances and a more routine schedule. Usually they rotate shifts. We'll see what the Lord provides. Don't get me wrong, I'm really like being a retail pharmacist, when the customers behave themselves, at least.

I gotta go to bed, sleep when kiddo sleeps!

mjintexas

Yay for two days with no meds! Glad you had such a great visit with Rachel. I'm jealous of both of you! :)

 
kristasfa

I hope you get that job! I would hate to drive so much, especially in IN weather!

 
amy_szabo

Totally!

 
lastoflakewood

Peter, my buddy for last week!

 
mayflower

Such a cute picture!

 
nolongerwise

Ryan says IU is a really good hospital to be at for weird stuff. He says they are known for finding weird stuff and fixing it. I wish I were still in Indy to offer y'all a place to crash and babysitter! Well, I don't really wish I were still there, but I would love to help you out!

 
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