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Next to last day 12-27-08 09:03pm EST
I hope you all have been enjoying your holiday festivities and were able to do something fun for this 6th day of the Festival of Lights.

We had a good celebration of the midwinter holiday of Christmas. Among other things, I was given Manuals for my antique tractor, two really cool splitting mauls, enough materials to build 3 more bee hives, and a really cool book on organic apple husbandry that I didn't even know existed.

Another really cool thing is that I was finally able to use my birthday present. on the 25th, Stacey, Kelly, and I played 2 games of Settlers of Catan. On the 26th, Leigh joined by coming with Kelly to spend the night and we played 3 games (technically the third started about midnight on the 27th and went 'til about 0140). Then, we played one more game late this morning before they took off. GREAT FUN!

I'm back in the office Tuesday and Wednesday, then off unitl the 5th - hopefully I'll get a little rest before then (^_^)
matermagistraI haven't played Settlers of Catan yet, but my sister has Settlers of Canaan, and we really liked it. I hope to get the original Settlers game sometime soon. 
marlaSo, I saw/met some folks who know you today! Well, I know their son and I grew up with their daughter-in-law -- Jim and Patsy (?) Neff. Patsy is from Dayton, so I asked if she knew y'all. And she does. I thought that was pretty cool :) 
mjintexasI missed responding to your post below.
I grew up in a Jewish-populated area (and got Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur off as school holidays) and have been part of various Hanukkah celebrations, Bar/Bat Mitzvahs, Shabbat services, etc. I found it VERY interesting and quite the insight into Christian history. Last year I fixed a traditional Jewish meal for our Christmas Eve dinner. It was great!
My dad is also very well studied in Jewish history (we call him Rabbi Ken) and he makes a point of sharing lots about the Jewish holidays at those particular times of year. Again, it is very enlightening about where we come from. 
runningjakeIt sounds like you had a nice break, enjoy the rest of your days off in the new year too! 
whipsmilesounds like a very addicting game! 
nickomundoNever played 'Catan' but we did get Ticket to Ride for Christmas and love it. Have you played that? 
jayThat is awesome Ben. I have the StarShip version of that game, but Ange and I cannot figure out how to play it. We may be seeking your advice on that.. Happy New Year! Stay Safe! 
kellyhelp him! the 5 girls could play while the four of you play the game :) i was coming here to share this link w/ you i want to do a mission and this is one i wish i would've been part of ~ http://video.yahoo.com/network/100000089?v=2183321 &l=100022574 
kellysorry i didn't lik it wasn't thinkin, then again that's just normal 
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marlaOk, I had to ;) 
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In other news... 12-17-08 11:50am EST
- The family has been sick for a while and we're all in various states of repair.
- Consequently, we had to cancel a visit from Wayne and Beth :o(
- We're all decked out for the impending holidays. But I still have a couple of things I need to pick up for my splendid wife
- We're finally heating with fire! (pictures forthcoming) Good timing since our heat pump is refusing to work!
- Definitely check out Stacey's latest post - serious implications for mandating "the village" raising our children.


Question: Hanukkah - ever done anything with this festival? I've been listening to Hanukkah Blessings by Barenaked Ladies and have been thinking about the festival of lights. Jesus celebrated it and I think it might be interesting to consider for next year. Experience or comments are appreciated.
heatheronthehillWe've considered "celebrating" various Jewish holidays when our kids grow up just for the experience/educational aspect of it - Passover in particular. I think it would be fun!

And I have to agree with you and your wife - I don't want the "village idiot" raising my children! That's my job and I don't want it taken away from me! 
whipsmileI read her blog and wasn't surprised with what I read, but was shaking my head. 
curlieI would like to celebrate Hanukkah. I look at menorahs online every year and then never actually buy one. I almost posted about this a couple of weeks ago and then thought everyone would consider me crazy, so you get kudos for being brave. :) 
madtomkiddIf they don't think I'm crazy already, they must not know me (^_^) 
kristindoulaYep! Crazy, isn't it? 
djoy0816haha thanks -- how are you doing 
kt80We're more of a Festivus family. 
bdocI've always joked that I celebrate Hannnukah, just not religiously. Actually, I do prefer to call what we do "Festivus". No airing of grievances, no Festivus pole. A tree, stockings, and all that - we just call it Festivus. 
lefantstafi've been almost buying a menorah for years. they are just expensive, so i havent yet started my hanukkah tradition. i think it is possible to celebrate a great many holidays and traditions. i think we can embrace these celebrations through love. and its good. 
stu192I agree. When things settle and kids dry up (ours) we need to make plans. I mentioned something to Amanda about a month ago of doing Clifton Mills and catching up with you all and she said, "you know we're gonna be having a baby?" 
runningjakeI hope you guys feel better! Yep, I've celebrated it before both at school and through friends (I had a good friend of mine who was Jewish but converted to Christianity and still celebrated all the Jewish holidays). 
tommyswifeYou really must stay away from those mcmafia people! They have chickens and lots of kids and more land than they can mow AND they are thinking about homeschooling! Weird people. *hehehehe* j/k! :) 
tommyswifeActually I think you guys would get along swimmingly! Amanda and stewy are a hoot! 
nickkrumreiI would indeed enjoy seeing your outline. 
jayMerry Christmas bro! 
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The Downside 12-09-08 11:33am EST
With the reading we've done for home education and looking at other areas of interest, I've wondered about the role of the good ol' interwebs in tearing us down rather than building up.

I'd like you to consider these thoughts from a blog I subscribe to:

   Over the last five years, have you noticed a change in the way you read? Is it possible that we’re all getting dumber?
   I was recently reading a well-known and somewhat disturbing article entitled “Is Google Making Us Stupid“. In the article, author Nicholas Carr argues that Internet has changed the way we read, and in turn, the way we think. I think he’s on to something. He says:

   …what the Net seems to be doing is chipping away my capacity for concentration and contemplation. My mind now expects to take in information the way the Net distributes it: in a swiftly moving stream of particles. Once I was a scuba diver in the sea of words. Now I zip along the surface like a guy on a Jet Ski.

   How true this is. Much of my reading is now done in bite-sized, easily digestible chunks. If a blog post is longer than a few paragraphs I skim it. Twitter posts are limited to 140 characters. If an email gets too long I skim to the end.
   Later in the article, Carr quotes author and pyschologist Maryanne Wolf, who says:

   When we read online, she says, we tend to become “mere decoders of information.” Our ability to interpret text, to make the rich mental connections that form when we read deeply and without distraction, remains largely disengaged.

   This bothers me. Why? Because as a Christian, my spiritual life is directly linked to a book. God has given His words to me in a long, detailed book - a book that requires deep reading and even deeper thinking. In scripture, the man who is blessed is the man who meditates on God’s law day and night. What a foreign concept in our text-message world.
   My concern is that my net reading habits, combined with my easily distracted sinful nature, could detract from my ability to go deep into God’s word.
   I don’t plan on cutting out blog reading or email, but I may reevaluate my habits. I want to ensure that nothing is hindering my pursuit of God through his word. More on this later.
   What about you? Do you think the Internet is changing the way you read?

I think the answer is yes for me. That's why I try to read a real book of something during my lunch time to fight the brain rot of the web.
whipsmileof course it affects the way people read. Anything that has taken over the known world with such force is going to change things. Some bad things about reading from the internet: the already diminishing attention span is cut in half, spelling has diminished, abbreviations of words have tunred into something ridiculously unintelligable, RESEARCH at times has turned into a JOKE because of the internet.

But, as with everything else: moderation and judgement need to rule. I read actual books all the time, and I don't hardly EVEr go on the computer at night or on the weekends. Limitations are good, esp when we set them on ourselves and stick to them. 
whipsmileand I'm sorry you think my cooking is ewwwww. He liked it and I won't send you any for Christmas. >:-P~~~ 
heatheronthehillHmmmm... interesting to think about. I don't feel like I have been deeply affected though because I do so much outside reading of actual books, and much of it is non-fiction. I also enjoy reading the long posts on profound subjects from some of the people on pleonast - Sally, Wendy, and Mrs. Beckley come to mind. I have enjoyed gaining wisdom from people with whom I would not have come into contact otherwise. I also enjoy using my blog as a journal of sorts, cataloging my life and sharing it with friends and family afar. I guess it is all a matter of balance, being conscientious of our use of it, and making wise judgments, as with anything, taking care what we read. 
1cor9_19I didn't read all of your post, but I liked the thoughts. Didn't have time to read it all so I skimmed it to the end.
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I totally agree. Not only do we not savor words, but we do not savor thoughts, or friendships or family. I get ashamed at myself many times in this as well. I see a long post, and find myself just skimming it. for me, I feel it shows a total lack of respect for the writer. I'm sure it took a long time to think of it and then put it in words... Much longer than it takes for me to just read it. I need to remember that their thoughts, and concerns are fully worth my time. 
smiley_bethIntriguing thoughts that make a lot of sense to me. I too make sure I read books, but I see what the author is saying. 
waerickYes - I read more than ever now. (I've never been big on reading.) 
mockinbirdI think it's all about time. We go on the computer and try to cram so much into the time we have free to "surf". While I am reading this, what am I missing somewhere else? If you have a true passion for reading though, I don't think the internet can corrupt you to the point that you will forsake that first love. 
buddabignbaldThis is a huge problem, man. I'm sure Satan loves our lack of ability to focus and will use it as long as he can. 
tommyswifeI look at the internet as no different than most newspapers that are written at a lower level. In order to read better literature more brain WORK is needed. There is a lot of laziness which could be partly why our schools are falling behind others in the world. Google, the internet and and most media are geared toward our "fast food" society. We want our information like we want our meals....fast junk! I am thankful that I enjoy reading. 
mamahastingsGood one Honey!

So what is the Bubble Blaster doing to my head? :) 
runningjakeHmm.. I never really thought about this. I don't think it has affected me much. I've always been an extremely avid reader and I don't think that has dropped at all in the years after the internet. I do have to say that it's much easier for me to be well-informed or get a quick answer to a question I have, instead of having to wait until I talk to an expert, doctor, having a phone book available etc..

I can definitely see how it's affecting some people's writing skills. I can't stand some of the abbreviations that are used, especially, if they are excessive and make blogs/comments hard to read. Maybe I'm just being stubborn, though? 
pookyThis post is too long. I'll read it later. ;-) 
stu192I WANT TO READ! I've grown up hearing "I don't have time" for this and that and I don't want to be the person to say that. I don't MAKE the time. I make the excuses, and reading takes a back seat to kids, chores, relaxing and all that. Then you have this internet creature where short exerpts are enough to get an understanding (althoguht they actually aren't). 
hastingsI literally lost focus after 2 lines. but I got the gist 
lorileighChildren will do the same thing to you. 
hooseThis is so true. I used to read everything I could get my hands on, and now I find that my attention span is slowly dwindling. We need to rage against the machine! Literally. :-) 
kon_tikion a positive side though i find that google enables me to learn about all sorts of random things that otherwise i would only be able to speculate about or never know. granted, most of these things are rather trivial, but nevertheless i don't know how many times a week i have a question and go to trusty ol' google to find the answer. for efficiency it beats buying a set of encyclopedias every year to keep "up to date." 
pookyNo, he didn't make it. He was working through those hours. 
rule_britannia"Nothing new under the sun." Always something to dumb us down. TV, phones, games, pleonast, cars, horses. There is always a sacrifice. 
bdocDon't laugh, but I seriously haven't had time to read this post because I keep trying do so at work and it's busy here. 
bdocOkay, okay, I did it. Whew! I can see how this can be a problem for a lot of folks, but as an avid book reader of both fiction and non, I find that my capacity for reading continues to increase. I think that if we balance our reading between the mini-media (I just coined that term, so give me credit if you use it) and traditional print media, we'll be okay. 
joshreavesGood to hear about your dad's recovery. Brother, I know exactly what you mean. I often think about Jesus "finding" Nathaneal under a fig tree, and I remember the reaction Nathaneal had because of it. I believe he must have been alone, and probably meditating about God deeply. Perhaps this is the key to being what Nathaneal was described as, a man in whom was found "no guile". We surely miss you guys, and speak of you often 
toad8029the rappelling down the waterfall was very cool. So was the water. :) 
lorileighYou were asking a while ago about which publishers are publishing Eddie's scientific papers and book chapter. Informa Healthcare is the publisher for the two papers that were accepted for publication in Inhalation Toxicology. The publisher of the Comprehensive Toxicology, 2nd edition book (chapter title Evaluation of a Male Reproductive Toxicant) due in print in 2010 is Elsevier. 
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Disappointed 12-05-08 11:26pm EST
In good news, Dad is doing pretty well now that the medication has been sorted out.

Monday, I took all of my girls to see Madagascar 2. We enjoyed the first one and thought this would be more of the same. Well, it was pretty funny, but it had a message not unlike what Frederic talked about in his most recent post.

On one hand, they're simply trying to portray a different life choice as acceptable. I mean, come on, a lion that thinks a fight means to do the dances to the fight scene in West Side Story - that's funny! But it isn't just that. They show the problems that come from these choices, they show the acceptance of everyone in New York City, they show the rejection of everyone in the small, remote village, and finally that everyone in the small village is willing to come around and accept this alternative.

If one wants to blow that off as not promoting the homosexual agenda, then - at a minimum - it is rejecting "traditional roles" which our society disdains. Society tells us that our grandparents had it wrong. The real message is that God has it wrong. Society wants us to believe that there is no difference between men and women and that any role/responsibility is completely interchangable. Too, when you don't agree with your parents, it's ok to run off - it'll turn out better for you.

The sad part is that the primary audience for these themes are small children. Granted, this one had a PG instead of G rating, but it's targeted at young, highly impressionable minds.
curlieHow disappointing. I have never seen it, but the storyline of Footloose was sort of like that back in the '80s. Hollywood has enjoyed picking on conservative morals for a long time. 
mamahastingsand you didn't even mention the drag queen lemur :) 
all_gods_childrenThanks for letting me know. We haven't seen this one yet. (nor the 1st one) Always good to get others opinion before seeing something and being disappointed. 
pollymhthat is very sad. glad to know this before viewing it. 
serenaFocus on the Family didn't give it a good review. I think a 2/5 on being family friendly. At least parents like you guys can see it, just think of all those kids ane parents who are blindly being influenced by these hidden agendas. Very sad. 
1cor9_19I'd love to have you participate in our study of the Gospel of John.... hop on to my blog and invite your friends! 
runningjakeYou should definitely see the Natural History Museum! It was a lot of fun. Yeah, it's not quite the same as in Chicago but it was still a lot of fun. We've had NYC pizza too but nothing compares to pizza straight from Italy. :) However, we do have a really amazing pizza place close to our apt.

We never had a chance to go there. But we found a good church pretty much across the street from our apt, so I think we're going to be going there. Thanks for the invite, though! 
nickomundoHmm. Interesting. I haven't seen Madagascar 2, but I did my senior thesis on changing gender roles in Disney films. It's amazing the insidious messages they slip in. And we still trust them because they USED to be good family entertainment. 
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Update on Dad 12-03-08 11:03am EST
Dad's surgery went really well. The Doctors & Rehab folks were happy with his status and they let him go yesterday afternoon.

The bad news is that there were some conflicting directions on medication and he's having some swelling which is causing a bit of pain.

Structurally, the joint is where it's supposed to be. But, there was a lot of trauma to the tissue getting in there and replacing the part of the joint that needed work.

So, please, keep Dad in your prayers for his recovery and healing and Mom, too, as she's trying to take care of him.
pookyOverall, sounds like good news. 
whipsmilewell, i hope that the meds situation pans out. Glad that it was a success. 
bdocPraying for a thorough recovery. 
tommyswifeI hate that he has been in pain! I hope he can recover fast! 
mister_cglad everything is ok but I will continue to pray. 
stu192I've been looking up stuff on moxibustion. It doesn't seem like anything I couldn't do at home. I called an acupressure place today, but the lady (with horrible, broken English) preferred that I bring my wife in rather than do it at home. Between that and having Amanda do flips in a pool, I'm running out of alternatives that I've found. Maybe a chiropractor would be useful, but we're really roundin the corner here. I think the thing helping me is that Amanda says she's "Ok" about whatever happens. (But I'm always open to suggestions, we still have time!) 
runningjakeI'm glad the surgery went well, I hope he has a speedy recovery. 
pollymhglad for the successful procedure. 
mockinbirdI will be thinking about both of them. It is often as difficult for the caregiver as the patient. 
all_gods_childrenI pray he continues to recover. Will be praying for both your Dad and Mom. 
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